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From The Desk of Rabbi Yehuda

Get Real!

 

What would I have done? A question I ask myself often when reading Jewish history— be it Holocaust related or Bible related or anything in between. 

There were choices in each of these instances— of people. Real people with real emotions, intellect, families, struggles, financial realities — all so familiar to us — the result of which we get to experience. 

This week’s Torah portion relays the joyous and formative story of the Exodus from Egypt. Gd’s abounding mercy and salvation we are all well familiar with, but the individual struggles and decisions of the enslaved people along the way leading up to the emancipation, we rarely consider. 

With a moments thought however, we recognize that there were real choices, struggles, ups and downs —the results of which we experience and celebrate today. 

We needn’t rewind a few thousand years to find examples. Over the past weeks, as the stories of the released hostages emerge — one by one we read of strength and choice that both inspire and boggle the mind. 

Yesterday, after 480+ days in captivity the released hostage Agam Berger was photographed holding a sign that read, “I chose the path of faith and I returned in the path of faith”. It was both a play on words in Hebrew but it conveyed the depth of choice that Agam made in captivity. Foods she didn’t consume chores she refused to do due to it being Shabbat. The strength that she exhibited enough to inspire generations for millennia. 

At the end of it all, “what would I have done” is irrelevant. What will I do, is the essential question we all need to ask ourselves. How will I ensure that my decisions create a stronger Jewish experience, family and community.

For after all is said and done, Am Yisrael is Chai and it’s as a result of real people, real decisions — real strength!!

No Deal

 

Earlier this week, with heightened emotion, we saw the release of three hostages — Romy, Emily & Doron — and as of time of writing, we await the names of the next round of released captives. 


Deals, negotiations, concessions, truce —are some of the words being bandied about to describe this phase of our people coming home to our land —an absolute affront and an outrage! 


Covenant! The word that aptly describes the relationship between the Jewish nation with Gd, the land of Israel and the Torah. 


In today’s Torah portion —which is the very story of the Exodus — an event that we celebrate 8 days out of every year and mention in our prayers “every” single day —Gd tell Moses that he must demand of Pharaoh to “let my people go” — because he is now acting on the “covenant”. 


Covenant! What does it actually mean? 


A quick google will include in the definition of the word covenant —“an agreement which brings about a relationship of commitment between God and his people”. 


This isn’t a deal. This isn’t a negotiation. This is part of the Covenant. Indeed, as one Rabbi noted in his column this week that Jewish connection to the Land of Israel is 16x longer than American existence. It's part of the covenant


To me, we were watching our sisters coming home to our homeland. Simple as that. 


Covenant! A commitment that transcends all limitations and conventions, deals and understandings— it’s the ultimate commitment. Merav Berger, the mother of one of the soon to be released hostages expresses the depth of the covenant when she said —

“We are eagerly waiting for our daughters. We also know that this is likely to happen on Shabbat, and it’s not by chance that our enemies are probably aiming for that. It’s important to me, and I’ve been thinking about it a lot in recent days, how I can do this without desecrating the Sabbath,” said the mother. 


Incredible. A mother awaiting her daughter who has been held captive 470+ days and this is her quandary? Beyond words. But then again a covenant is beyond words — it’s an essential bond between us and the Almighty.


As we embrace 2025 — let us remember our covenant and connection via Torah and Mitzvah to do just a little more in our lives and may Hashem shower infinite blessings upon each of us, in the very areas that we require for happiness, health, nachas and peace of mind — Amen!



Let My People Go

 

Bring them home!

With bated breath we await the first-stage of the hostage release. 

The names Bibas are supposedly on the list as are many others that for 400+ days we’ve been praying for. 

I can’t begin to imagine their physical and mental state but my heart bursts with joy for them and their families, whilst it contracts in pain for those still in captivity and those who we’ll never see again. 

“Let my people go”! 

Not too dissimilar in chant  —yet it’s Moses at the behest of G-d that confronts Pharaoh in Biblical Egypt. It’s G-d that sets it into motion and it’s the first time we are introduced to the very concept of freedom. A Divine idea!

Divine ideas originate and are modeled by G-d and then handed to mankind for us to emulate. That in a nutshell is what the Torah represents. Divine ideas that are “Divine” in that they originate from G-d and then gifted to humankind to aspire to. 

“Let my people go”! 

It’s our responsibility to be there for one another. Whether in a hostage situation or simply struggling in life; whether it benefits us directly or not — even if it actually costs us financially, emotionally or in any other way. For after all, it’s Divine and regardless of how we see ourselves, we all know in our heart of hearts we are the recipients of G-d’s divine benevolence in abundance. 

Whether it’s a good deal or not, pro the deal or not — one thing is for sure — we ought to recognize the Divine elements of life as articulated in the Torah, aspire to them and ensure that the unity of the nation of Israel remains undivided!!

With best wishes for a Shabbat Shalom.

Polar Opposites

 

The images out of the West Coast have been absolutely horrifying this past week. 

Entire neighborhoods, lifetime possessions engulfed and incinerated. 

All four elements in full force. Some on the destructive side and some on the side of repair. Fire and water battling it out with major input from air / wind scorching the earth. 

Every natural disaster is caused by a blend of these four elements each occurrence in a different order. Where water was scarce in this instance, the results of abundance of water are all too familiar to us.

Yet at the same time, who could live without these elements? The very oxygen of life if you will, quite literally. Indeed, the very fabric of our being — human life at the core, was created from earth as is related in the Torah. 

The polar sides of life. One moment valuable the next moment worthless.  

And then there’s the vivifying element of life. The source of it all, G-d. Who can really make sense of it all? Can one really even dream of trying to grasp the inner mechanisms of the Divine plan?

Of course not. Not the inner mechanisms that is — the blueprint however, we were gifted. The Torah. Quite simply as a  blueprint of life. How to live.  To surf above the confusing elements of life. 

Indeed, most of all, it directs us how to accumulate in ways that can never be taken away from us regardless of any element or natural disaster. Because at the end of it all, good deeds & Mitzvahs far outlive our lifespans and are the only currency that survives it all!

As I write these words — the fire has yet to be contained and we pray for the safety of everyone—with extra prayers to those battling the blazes from the front lines

With best wishes for Shabbat Shalom,

It's Lit!

 Eight nights, eight lights. Then it’s over. 


So I thought until the electric suddenly cut out last night. A downed tree the culprit. 

Out came the candles. Another night of lighting candles yet with a very different purpose. 
Chanukah candles are “not” supposed to be used for their light. Their purpose is pristine. They stand tall with a message of gratitude and acknowledgement for the great miracles and the Gdly love. 

In a confusing world driven by a “what’s in it for me” attitude, it’s almost inconceivable doing something that doesn’t offer personal benefit. Why would one do that? Hardly a good use of time or financial resources. 

Chanukah states otherwise. A untainted message of gratitude, acknowledging the higher purpose at work. The Divine energy that permeates the fabric of the world. Inherent good that cancels out or rather, dispels the very notion of darkness. 

But then the eight days ends. We are now recalibrated. Our priorities in place we can now once again enter our realities. Our Divine given realities that is. Our successes, our gifts, our talents, our resources, our challenges, our tests — all Divine given. How will we use them?

The Torah and Judaism requires living and life in the very world that screams — “What’s in it for me”? “More is better”! “Pursue pleasure, do what it takes to get to the perceived top”. It’s in that environment specifically, that we can transform and refine our surroundings. 

The human element of life is what makes life all so worth it… the maze like pattern of life throws curveballs, challenges and decoys — sending us in all sorts of directions which may lead us astray from our Divine goals. Yet as with any maze, when one rises above it for an even a short period of time one sees the whole blueprint and the goal becomes clear and achievable. 

Last night’s outage caused an unscheduled inconvenience yet at the end of it all — the candles that we lit to use as light, brought the message of the previous eight days of Chanukah to a crescendo. 


With best wishes for a Shabbat Shalom & a Happy New Year
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