From The Desk of Rabbi Yehuda
The Best Choice
The Perfect Combo!
There’s nothing like a fresh start. Pristine, untainted and blissfully ignorant.
Except —there’s also nothing like the wisdom gained from experience. Tried and true, nuanced and focused.
Walking through Gan Izzy, one gets to see the “fresh start”, all over the place. Many firsts, many new experiences — in a warm and all-embracing setting. The potential and the future of Am Yisrael on full display!
Yet for there to be a future — there needs to have been a past. A past that endured, that built, that preserved and in turn shared it with the next generation.
We are consistently part of the past and a bridge to the future. As long as we preserve what has so painstakingly been preserved for millennia, the future is bright.
The greatest stumbling block of course is ego and Moses in this week’s Parsha warns his nation not to slip into the seemingly natural disposition of, “look at what I did; see how accomplished I am; it’s all because of me”. He speaks from experience and his nuanced and focused message is the result of decades of leading the Jewish nation.
Yet the Parsha doesn’t stop there and the key to maintaining healthy humility is also shared.
Thankfulness. Gratitude. Specifically as it manifests itself in “Grace After Meals” also known as Birchat Hamazon or Bentching.
A simple paragraph composed by Moses himself recited after a meal, to thank the true source of the food, Gd, for his bountiful blessings.
Fast forward a few thousand years. The freshness of Judaism remains. The foundation of Judaism is stronger than ever. Ego may still be an issue — gratitude and thankfulness still the tonic.
Is it cliche to say “Am Yisrael Chai?
Hardly! A quick stroll around Gan Izzy will resoundingly reinforce it and for that I’m profoundly thankful.
Am Yisrael Chai!!!
With best wishes for a Shabbat Shalom,
Rabbi Yehuda & Dina Kantor
The Morning AFter
The mourning after.
It’s not a typo — yesterday was the saddest day on the Jewish calendar ( Tisha B’av) but today is the morning after and life, as ordained by Jewish wisdom, continues vigorously.
I walked through camp yesterday, stomach rumbling and all (it was a fast day) yet what I experienced was the antithesis to what one would think the day represents.
Rebuilding. Life. Energy. Future.
I observed a large amount of children engaged in a project with LEGO collectively building the very edifice that we were mourning the destruction of. Hardly a day of mourning — the greatest display of rebuilding!
The physical edifice of the Temples destroyed yet the heart and soul of the Jewish nation pumping stronger than ever!
Jewish life today, does have some challenges to be sure — that is the definition of Exile. The lack of revelation and dominion that exists in times of redemption.
Yet even then, the soul of the Jew can’t be extinguished. The physical edifice, perhaps — the essential core, never!
The mo(u)rning after. It’s morning. It’s fresh. Full of hope and potential. All it takes is U.
You see, Jewish life is vibrant because of all of us. We’ve survived the millennia due to the collective efforts of the entire Jewish nation. Each of us contributing another piece of LEGO on the proverbial structure of Jewish life.
Microcosmically too — each mitzvah we do, irrespective of what we don’t do — adds another piece of LEGO so to speak, to the individual quest and mission that we each individually have in this world.
It follows then, that a fitting morning after resolution is — to add one more mitzvah to our lives. Another mitzvah to our routines. Another Shabbos celebration, Mezuza or Torah podcast — each act truly rebuilding the Third Temple — may we merit the rebuilding speedily in our days, amen!
With best wishes for a Shabbat Shalom,
Rabbi Yehuda & Dina Kantor
How?
I recently noticed that the word “how” and “who” have the same letters yet very different meanings.
Life!
Who Am I?
Now, Now, Now!
One Size, Many Lessons
With best wishes for a Shabbat Shalom,
Rabbi Yehuda & Dina Kantor
P.S. I still haven’t found the mystery purchaser of the sandwich…
No Big Deal?
I wonder who this was?
Yesterday, someone I don’t know made a donation to Chabad of Westport with the following note attached.
“In honor of the congregant who bought me a kosher brisket sandwich at the historic Knicks game”.
It intrigued me so I reached out to this individual and asked him for some particulars. To which he responded.
“As a member of the Chabad of East Hampton and East Boca I was happy to reciprocate the generosity of one of your congregants who bought my dinner at the kosher stand at Madison Square Garden. (I advised him to order the brisket over the pastrami). I told him I would repay his kindness with a donation to his shul. Not more than that. Kindness begets kindness. Keep up the excellent work”.
Not more than that. Kindness begets kindness.
What a powerful truism! The chain reaction of a good deed — that inspires and results in more good deeds being done.
Not connected or perhaps connected — I received a text this week from a neighboring Chabad Rabbi who was seeking funds to pay for the burial of a “Mr David G..” OBM.
David had passed away without anyone to arrange and pay for his burial —he died penniless. The hospital didn’t know what to do with the body; fortunately they reached out to this Rabbi who immediately committed to giving Mr G a kosher Jewish burial. He was now out of pocket serious funds the he didn’t have and needed help covering the expense.
Knowing our generous community and the level of Mitzvah associated with the burial of another, I committed to send over a significant portion of the expenses to ensure a dignified and kosher Jewish burial. The reaction of kindness getting pushed further down the chain.
I immediately sent an email to a small group and the balance was raised immediately. No more than that. Kindness begets kindness. The chain reaction fully engaged!
Our tradition teaches that not only does a good deed trigger kindness in this world but it actually inspires kindness from On-High — triggering a downward flow of compassion upon the one engaged in kindness. A win win all around.
I don’t know who bought the sandwich at MSG and I don’t know Mr G but that’s hardly the point for the effects of our deeds are way more powerful than we could ever quantify.
May the soul of Mr G have an Aliya ( ascend from level to level) and May those who stepped forward get repaid from The One Above. To the anonymous sandwich buyer — drop me a line, I’d love to buy you a Pastrami sandwich!
Manna From Heaven!
Coming Full Circle
Totally In Love!
Coming Full Cirle
Count Your Blessings!
Happily Ever After!
Every good story finishes with the words, “and they lived happily ever after”.
What is “after”?
Well, that depends on what the before was and where our values lie.
I thought of this as I saw a moving photo of Prime Minister Bibi Netanyahu wearing the Tefillin of fallen lone soldier Sean Carmeli earlier this week on Yom Hazikaron.
“When I put on his tefillin, I feel the profound connection between the generations… between a quiet prayer and an act of self-sacrifice beyond compare,” he wrote, adding that he offered “a silent prayer… in memory of all our fallen, and for the future of our people.
After. Utterly meaningless without having a profound before and an enduring eternal tomorrow.
After. Continuity. Dor L’dor. Eternity.
Judaism is all about the after. We’ve been handed the amazing and transcendent Heritage that stretches back almost 4000 years and experienced with dedication, devotion and self sacrifice throughout the millennia in order to create the today which ensures an after.
After is in our hands whether we can quantify it or not. We’ve been graced with the opportunity and honor to create an “after” for our families, communities, future generations — we are the products of the after that preceded us!
Sean Carmeli was an American lone soldier. He electively joined the IDF defending the “after”, ultimately giving his very life — may his memory be for a blessing and continue inspiring.
After. What a powerful word not for its relativism rather for its ability to link the past with the future.
At the end of the day that’s what Am Yisrael has been doing for millennia — creating the “after”, today!
With best wishes for a Shabbat Shalom,
Rabbi Yehuda & Dina Kantor
P.S. Hear the story amazing connection with Sean Carmeli Tefillin and Camp Gan Israel. Powerful!
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P.P.P.S. The name of one of this weeks Parsha is “Acharie “ which means after. It tells of laws given after the passing of the two sons of Aaron. Here’s a link to read more about the Parsha to connect with the timelessness of Torah .
