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From The Desk of Rabbi Yehuda

Successful!!

 

Success breeds… 

It’s healthy to pursue success the results of  success however, are often overlooked.

The Torah in the week’s Parsha describes Joseph as successful. It’s a unique description that isn’t used in the description of the many Righteous and Holy leaders of the Torah. 

Ironically, he is called successful at the lowest points of his life. He is sold as a slave by his brothers, accused of rape, incarcerated in prison — and yet even before he rises to the second highest position of the Superpower nation of his times, he is described as a successful man. 

Clearly, his success wasn’t in his achievements—those still lay ahead of him. Rather, it lay in his attitude and philosophy in life. 

His Master, the Torah recounts, was palpably able to discern that Joseph was different than others pursuing success; that his conduct was permeated in an elevated manner. His goals for success weren’t solely motivated for his own self aggrandizement.

Perhaps this is the definition of success. The recognition that whatever we achieve is as a result of Hashem’s blessing — specifically channeled through us — in order for something even greater to happen. Our lives as a conduit. 

Success breeds…. Our job in life is to fill in the blank and if we learn from Joseph, we can be sure that success breeds goodness, humility, compassion and yes, true success. 

At the end of it all we realize,  it’s not success that breeds, rather, the preceding attitude and acknowledgment of the source of our blessings that breeds success. 

As we look to a New Year ahead, our goal should be for success — one that enhances ourselves, our families, our communities and the whole Am Yisrael — with a deep and humble acknowledgment of the source of all blessings — Hashem!

With best wishes for a Shabbat Shalom.

Rabbi Yehuda & Dina Kantor 

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Perspective!

 

Much in life is defined by perspective. 

Two people. Two perspectives. Yet one truth. 

Perspective doesn’t change truth. 

At times we wrestle with truth. Our perspective, which can derive from so many sources, tug at our senses. 

The inner battle is on. Constant. 

Right from wrong, good from bad, truth from deceit, all bound together with so many nuances, making it so confusing at times. 

The beacon of light however, lovingly handed to us, accessible and practical, transcendent yet immanent. Antiquated yet current. 

Torah. 

Our story. Our wisdom. Our anchor. Our wings. Our strength. Our guiding light. Our blessing

Perspective is formed like AI. Aggregated from multiple sources and experiences. An open google doc that can be added to by anyone and everyone, the screening process too loose and exploited to create truth based perspective in life. 

Torah. 

Our story. Our wisdom. Our anchor. Our wings. Our strength. Our guiding light. Our blessing!

As we wind down 2024 — whether feeling beat, euphoric, cynical, inspired, indifferent, just battling-to-be or whatever, know the source of our indomitable spirit, our eternal inspiration, our clarity and vigor, our eternal nature. Our secret sauce as in source. Torah. 

Let’s make 2025 a year of truth and perspective through Torah and Mitzvot. Now that’s a New Year’s resolution worth celebrating!

With best wishes for a Shabbat Shalom,

With best wishes for a Shabbat Shalom.

Rabbi Yehuda & Dina Kantor 

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Stage Fright!


It was a jarring and sobering piece of news to end last Shabbat with. 

I was in Brooklyn for the International Conference of Chabad Shluchim. Thousands of us from all corners of the globe. 

Closer to home, I was spending Shabbos with my parents, my four brothers, in laws and many of my friends, all united with a common bond — the inspiration of Lubavitcher Rebbe— the energy was high. 

Then I heard the news. My first cousin’s son — Zamir Burke obm, had fallen in Gaza. 

“All the world’s a stage”. 

Entrances and exits, we all have our part.

The Torah describes the journey more like a ladder however. Feet firmly attached to the ground stretching up, reaching the heavens. 

It’s not about the entrance or exit, both of which we have no control of. It’s about the ladder. The direction we live our lives. Firmly planted on the ground, directionally striving for something higher. 

This was the life of Zamir. He dedicated his life in its entirety. He loved life. He defended life with his very life. His feet firmly planted on earth with his soul soaring, plumbing the depth of the Heavens above. 

May his memory be for a blessing. Yet better, may it serve as an inspiration for us all to climb one rung of the ladder of our personal lives by adding some Torah and Mitzvah  to our lives, reaching just one bit higher in our journey. 

A photo says a thousand words — this photo captures an eternity!!

With best wishes for a Shabbat Shalom.

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